How to build a relationship with your soul that will change all of your relationships.....
What would a conversation with your soul look like? Might you hear some things you'd prefer not to? Who would be in charge and would there be discrepancies and arguments or respect and appreciation? The only way to find out is to start communicating right now with a part of you that is neglected but forever awaiting your return. Let's look at some to achieve this....
How does your relationship with your soul affect the other relationships in your life?
If you feel stressed, anxious, emotional or chaotic, to name a few of the distractions that hold you back from the joy that you would naturally express, you may resonate with the word 'disconnected,' as it is in fact true that there is no harmony or flow when these contracting feelings invade your life. The consequences are far reaching but include physical and mental health problems, stressful relationships and perhaps a block in the flow of abundance on offer, whether that be in the form of dating, money, clients or other opportunities.
What kind of relationship are we looking at here? It is certainly true, that old adage, that you cannot love another until love yourself, but before there is love, there needs to be respect and before respect, decency - how much decency do you show yourself? Let's just go with the physical body as way of an example:
- 1Do you get a decent night's sleep?
- 2Do you eat a decent amount of healthy food?
- 3Do you spend a decent amount of quality time with yourself without distractions and entertainment?
And what about respect?
- 1Do you respect the need to rest at the times your body asks for it?
- 2Do you respect your body enough to stop stuffing it with junk?
- 3Do you respect the need for inner contemplation and self-awareness?
You can appreciate that it seems that the majority of humanity have a long way to go in order to reach 'love.' It highlights or rather exposes the problems that we can have relating to others if these basic tenets are not met. Our relationships may be based on needs, expectations, attachment to comfort, attachment to drama or stimulation, for example, if we are not choosing a foundation of at least decency when it comes to the relationship we have with ourselves.
But what if your soul said you have nothing to work at, nothing to perfect, no 'long way to go'? Imagine you could hear your soul speak and it said: "hey I'm here, I've always been here and I will be here long after you have finished your jaunt on earth - I am the love you desire, the light in the dark and the wisdom and grace in within the void you feel - just choose to connect within and you will hear me and feel me" what do you think your relationship with yourself may look like in this scenario? Would you be able to look at another and see the same potential of love in there eyes whether they were choosing to notice it or not?
Maybe all we need to do is surrender to the fact that we are much more than we believe ourselves to be. Maybe we can stop all of the trying, the control, the need to work things out, the self-development, the journeys and the constant seeking. Could it be that all we need to do is listen in to the silence within our inner-hearts and begin to allow a relationship that begins with being decent and respectful to ourselves so that we can begin to feel the fire of love that awaits us? And could this be the answer to all the problems that beset our relationships? Could we choose to see the love in another - whatever hurts their behaviour is stirring in us? If we choose to be love, we will be love - it's as simple as!
CONNECT WITH YOUR SOUL IN 6 STEPS
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